The TFMR Support Course

The silence surrounding baby loss is excruciating. But when your loss involves TFMR, that silence can feel even deeper – lonelier, heavier, more complicated. It can feel like there’s no place for your grief, no words that quite fit, and no one who truly understands.

Your grief is valid and you should never have to go through this alone ❤️

Who is this for?

This course is for anyone who has experienced a Termination For Medical Reasons (TFMR) – whether due to:

• a fetal diagnosis (including conditions like T21/Down syndrome, or any other diagnosis),

• concerns for maternal or birthing person’s physical health, or

• significant mental health considerations related to continuing the pregnancy.

You made the most loving, painful, and impossible decision—and we see you. This is a safe space created just for you.

What is it?

A 4 week, community-based support course created specifically for those grieving after TFMR.

This course gives you the space to connect with others who truly get it – people who are walking this same impossible path and understand the complexity of this unique kind of loss.

You’ll be part of a small, supportive group of women who’ve been through TFMR, sharing honestly and without judgement. It’s a space to say the unsayable, feel the unfeelable, and start to process the overwhelming emotions that come with this kind of grief.

What’s involved?

Live Zoom sessions with our team, where we talk honestly about where you are right now. These are relaxed, real conversations tailored to what you need in the moment.

Expert-led sessions on topics like grief after TFMR, trauma, mental health, and rebuilding your identity after loss.

Daily emails from us filled with encouragement, gentle guidance, and reminders that your grief matters—and you’re not alone.

A private WhatsApp group just for this group, where you can connect with others on the course, share in real-time, and feel part of a circle that truly understands this type of loss.

Why join?

• Because TFMR grief is different – and you deserve support that honours that.
• Because your story matters.
• Because this is more than just surviving – this is about finding your way through the heartbreak, in a world that no longer feels like the one you imagined.

How do I sign up?

Please register your interest for this course. An email will be sent out to everyone on the waiting list before the course launches. Spaces are limited and will be booked up quickly.

We’d be honoured to walk alongside you. You are not alone. You never have to be again ❤️

Here’s what previous attendees have said about our support courses:

“For me it’s mostly the connection with other women who’ve gone through a TFMR and the WhatsApp group and drop in sessions. TFMR is a lonely and misunderstood place, even within the wider baby loss community it can feel very isolating and talking with people who get it is just so important to feel seen, heard and validated in a judgement free space” – Gemma, May 2025 TFMR Course attendee

“Just a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart. A friend gave me your book a few days after my TFMR and reading it scraped me off the emotional floor. It validated all of the contradictory emotions I was feeling and made me feel so much less alone. This course has been amazing! The opportunity to meet girls that get it and have so many similar feelings has truly been invaluable and hopefully we will continue being able to support each other with whatever happens in the future. You girls (and what you do with TWGGE) are incredible, thank you, thank you, thank you!” – May 2025 TFMR Course attendee

“This was an incredible resource and I can’t even explain how grateful I am to you guys. I searched forever for something to help myself after my TFMR and have found nothing close to this living in the US. I’ve spent thousands in therapy since it’s not covered by insurance and honestly I’ve gotten more out of these sessions than I have in months of therapy. I am so so grateful for you guys. Truly. xo” – May 2025 TFMR Course attendee

“I’ve struggled mentally ever since losing Charlotte 11 years ago. I had to quit my career, I felt like I never got my life back to where it was and was in some ways was a bit of a failure for not handling it better. The course made me realise just how far I’ve come and the way I feel isn’t because I wasn’t able to cope – it’s how everyone feels in this situation. Despite the awful reason we all came together, I’ve come away feeling more positive and actually a little bit proud of myself. Thank you ❤️” – May 2025 TFMR Course attendee

“I wasn’t sure whether to join this course as my TFMR was nearly 2 years ago and I thought it would be for people much fresher and more relevant for them, but this wasn’t the case at all. It was good to connect with people who also went through it a while ago and how things have gone since for them. It’s also enabled me to focus more on my loss and grief than I have done in a while. All my energy has been on a new pregnancy for over 18 months now and I’ve pushed my TFMR to the back of my head a lot, this course has opened it back up for me in a way that’s been hard, but showed me I still have a lot of grieving and working through it to do. I know that will never leave me, and it’ll be hard, but I will continue to move through life with a better understanding of that. Hearing from people who have/are doing exactly that has been incredibly helpful” – Gemma, May 2025 TFMR Course attendee

“Having a safe and supportive space specifically dedicated to TFMR loss. I don’t know anyone else who has experienced TFMR and it is the most isolating and lonely place I’ve ever been. To have 19 other faces staring back at me on the screen that have all been through it is incredibly powerful itself – and that’s before the chatting/content of the sessions even starts!” – May 2025 TFMR Course attendee